Having afternoon tea can be a fun outing with kids during the holidays. Whether you’re celebrating a special occasion or just looking for a memorable experience. It’s an especially great winter outing that puts you in the mood of old Victorian New York, which is particularly fitting during Christmastime. There are several places that serve high tea in New York City.

1) Madeline’s Tea at the Carlyle – Upper East Side

35 East 76th Street at Madison Avenue

Taking place in the famous Bemelmans Bar, Madeline’s Tea pays tribute to the creator of the Madeline children’s book series, Ludwig Bemelmans. Surrounded by the author/illustrator’s delightful murals, deVaron explains that Bemelmans stayed in the Carlyle Hotel for 18 months painting the depictions of famous NYC monuments in exchange for room and board. The setting is small and intimate, the food and tea are plentiful and the music rocks. A big thumbs-up for that little French girl.

Kids Will Love: Kid-friendly foods and Madeline dolls, books, napkins and plates strewn about. But the star of the show is deVaron, who gets the children up on their feet singing requests, everything from The Sound of Music to the Twelve Days of Christmas to Taylor Swift.

Children’s Tea: This one is kid heaven. A buffet offers kid faves like chicken fingers, as well as more traditional tea sandwiches. See the full menu. Best For: Children under 10 who love music and dressing up fancy.

Cost and Schedule: $70 per person, $35 for children under 3. Offered on Saturdays November 3-December 22, with seatings at 10am and 12:45pm. Reservations are a must. Call 212-744-1600.

2) Lady Mendl’s Tea Salon – Gramercy

56 Irving Place between 17th and 18th Streets

Lady Mendl’s is a true Victorian tea salon in a brownstone on Irving Place that serves an elegant, classic English afternoon tea. Sit on couches by the fireplace or at elegantly-set tables.

Kids Will Love: The fancy room, service and touches like decorative rose sugar. Children’s Tea: There are no gimmicks here or a child’s menu. The five-course tea includes sandwiches, scones with Devonshire clotted cream and jam, desserts and bottomless pots of tea from a wide selection, including several of the spot’s own blends.

Best For: A great spot for a special occasion outing, whether for a family get together or a girl’s birthday treat. Girls ages 8 and up will appreciate this more formal and grownup atmosphere the most. The five-course afternoon tea takes at least an hour and a half. While children are welcome, use your discretion as to whether your younger kids can sit through it. During the week there’s a little more room for squirminess as the salon is generally less crowded.

Cost and Schedule: $40 per person plus tax and gratuity. Served daily at various times. Visit the website for a complete schedule. Reservations are required. Call 212-533-4466.

3) Alice’s Tea Cup – Upper East and Upper West Sides

156 East 64th Street between Third and Lexington Avenues

220 East 81st Street between Second

and Third Avenues 102 West 73rd Street at Columbus Avenue

Only someone with a heart of stone would fail to be enchanted by Alice’s Tea Cup. With three NYC locations, it has the most magical atmosphere and the best food of any tea house. All three outposts are tiny so expect a bit of a wait.

Kids Will Love: The butterfly wings everywhere (you can borrow a pair during your visit or buy a set in the gift shop), they will sprinkle you with fairy dust and the “Menu for the Small” with items like apple slices with peanut butter or Nutella. Their pumpkin scones are to die for!

Children’s Tea: “The Wee Tea” for kids includes a pot of tea or other beverage, one scone, choice of any children’s menu item and dark chocolate mousse. Best For: Everyone. The food is great, there are lots of options and it’s not too pricey.

Cost and Schedule: $20 for the Children’s Tea. Adult tea prices range from $25 for The Nibble to $60 for the Jabberwocky. Everyone can also order off the regular menu. Served daily.

4) American Girl Tea – Midtown East

609 Fifth Avenue at 49th Street

Overall, this is a wonderful experience that your little girl will cherish. Kids Will Love: Having a doll sit beside them in her own little seat with her own place setting. The café provides plenty of dolls to choose from if your daughter doesn’t have her own.

Children’s Tea: Tea sandwiches, butterfly cookies and chocolate mousse flowerpots are among the highlights Best For: Girls of all ages who love dolls.

Cost and Schedule: $20 per person, excluding tax and gratuity. Served daily at 4pm. Call 877-247-5223 or book reservations online.

5) The Russian Tea Room – Midtown West

150 West 57th Street between Sixth and; Seventh Avenues

This iconic NYC restaurant offers a Children’s Tea with a few Russian touches like peanut butter and jelly blinis. Overall it lacked the charm of many others, and suffered a bit from the soulless feeling of a tourist destination. On the other hand, its lack of frilliness made it possibly the best tea for boys.

Kids Will Love: Hot chocolate with whipped cream and a whole plate of desserts just for them. Seeing the fancy Russian toys in the gift shop is fun too.

Children’s Tea: Tea served Russian-style or hot chocolate, a tiered carousel of kid-friendly tea sandwiches and that aforementioned plate of desserts. See the full menu.

Best For: Boys, since the art deco room is not super girlie like many other tea salons. The restaurant is frequently empty so the antics of small children are accommodated.

Cost and Schedule: $35 per child. Children’s Tea is served daily from 2 to 4:30 pm. You can also book a kids’ birthday party by simply reserving a table for Children’s Tea (you pay regular menu prices) or working out a package for a private room. Call 212-581-7100.

6) Eloise Tea at the Plaza – Midtown West

Fifth Avenue at Central Park South

The stunning Palm Court at the Plaza Hotel reopened in 2010 after extensive renovations, and launched the Eloise Tea, as well as an Eloise Shop and even an Eloise Suite ($995 per night!), all inspired by the popular children’s book series.

Kids Will Love: Stopping by the pinked-out Eloise Shop where they can play dress-up, watch Eloise movies in the “reading room” or play pretend tea.

Children’s Tea: Tea sandwiches like peanut butter and jelly, grilled cheese, and strawberry and cream cheese, plus cookies and pink Jello, all served on a tiered platter along with pink lemonade or peppermint iced tea.

Best For: Special occasions. This is a wonderful, special outing that your child will remember for a lifetime.

Cost and Schedule: $30 per child under 12, $50 per adult. Served daily from 2 to 5pm, but reservations do fill up, especially during the holidays. Call 212-546-5300 to reserve.